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So today is another day and I havent binged. I talked to my ex and I feel really lonely. Somthing that really upset me was the fact that I have been spending some time with some old 'friends' that are guys. I told them i needed some friends and wasnt looking for romance. What upset me was that a few of them made passes at me! And I just realize that I CANT ever have friends taht are guys, they ALWAYS have ulterior motives. Ever since I was a teenager I had this problem, and it caused me alot of issues. I just dont feel like I can trust men at all. It seems like all they care about is sex, even if they act like my friend they still brag to their other guy friends like were dateing or something. Im sure alot of girls on this site have the same problems because everyone is so beautiful. I really need some friends and its so frusterating. Sotold me once that it is my fault because i give off a flirty vibe, but i honestly am just friendly! I guess I need to make some lady friends......Thanx for reading xoxox

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never forget to NEVER GIVEW UP! After 6 years of struggling I am doing better and feeling better than ever! RECOVERY IS POSSIBLE, even though it takes a lot of hard work and an emotional rollercoaster ride it is so worth it. WE CAN ALL BE FREE from this, as long as we keep on going, keep fighting for our right to be happy and healthy! YOU ARE WORTH IT!
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Same here!

Hey,

I have a lot of guy friends, just because I like to hang out with them as friends! Because between girls is too often too much bitchyness and jalousy and I really really hate that! But yes, guiy friends often tend to have other things in mind... Just try to be upfront with them, tell them you are not looking for a boyfriend but a boy friend:) hope this helps!

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